Pastors and Counselors

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 1

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 1

Since the primary cause of homosexuality is ungodly reaction to pain in childhood, a major part of counseling toward freedom focuses on cleaning out buried negative emotions. We refer to this as “working the emotions”. The point of the pain in childhood or adolescence is the point of the addiction. The mind of the sensitive…

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 2

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 2

The pain caused by early wounds is not easily forgotten. Satan uses pain—particularly in childhood–to gain access to a person’s mind and will. Negative emotions that are not dealt with in a godly manner will be stored inside. When the person experiences another painful situation, that present pain connects with the reservoir of pain from…

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 3

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 3

Any effort to uproot homosexuality which does focus on the emotional roots of this evil desire will fail. The counselee must focus on his/her feelings in order to understand what causes homosexual attraction. Once these painful emotions are identified and the sinful reactions they gave rise to are acknowledged, the counselee can begin to do…

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality- Part 4

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality- Part 4

Homosexuality is much more than an erotic attraction to the same sex. It is a complicated and recurring syndrome of emotional reactions, twisted thinking, false concepts of self and God. It begins with the child’s ungodly reaction to pain and continues in subsequent years as that growing child continues to choose sinful behavior in an…

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 5

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 5

Gary is the youngest of four children. His father was an Italian-American longshoreman who worked hard to provide for his family. He married Gary’s mother, a native of Puerto Rico, even though his family wanted him to marry an Italian girl. Unfortunately, Gary’s mother never felt accepted by her husband’s family and this caused tension…

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 6

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 6

Homosexual desires are often rooted in a deep-seated case against God. Hot emotions such as anger, disappointment, confusion, or fear are stored from painful situations in childhood. From the pain the person questions why God permitted such things to happen. Many feel frustrated that God seemed to ignore their prayers and did just what He…

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 7

Working The Emotional Roots Of Homosexuality – Part 7

Many people with homosexual desire have settled for things as they seem to be. By this I mean that they have resigned themselves to “being” a certain way or to situations that just won’t change. They identify with their sin as though it were who they are. They speak of their failures, sin pattern, ungodly…

The Truth About Looking – Don’t Feed The Fear

The Truth About Looking – Don’t Feed The Fear

Chris’s Journal Entry I’ve been around this ministry for years now and more recently I’ve been riddled by thoughts – will I ever change, am I going to keep making the same mistakes over and over again? OK, so I asked those questions just about every four months. But I’m still not interested in wearing…